
One of 14 mindsets · Care and responsibility
The Lighthouse
You are someone that other people navigate by without fully realising it.
Description
You are steady, reliable and there is a trustworthiness that radiates from within that people feel when they are around you. You are the one others come to when they need to think something through, when they need someone to hold the line or when they simply need to feel less alone. That is not common, it is something that reflects a real calm and sturdiness in you that others find comfort in.
The tension is that lighthouses stay in one place. They guide everyone else to where they are going while remaining fixed at the point they have always occupied. You are brilliant at being a constant for the people around you and considerably less practised at asking where you yourself want to go. Your direction has sometimes been determined by where you are most needed rather than where you most want to be.
You have been the fixed point for a long time. It is worth asking what it would look like to move.
The Mindset Test
Which mindset are you living in?
50 short statements about how things are for you these days. Free, about 10 minutes, with a personal reading by Sam at the end.
Find my mindsetMindsets describe how things are for someone at the moment, not a fixed type. They are reflections written by Sam, not a clinical assessment.
